Reasons Why Online Dating Romances Last Longer
One would expect online romances to end more suddenly in the absence of immediate attraction, similar social networks and demographics. Some studies have indicated however that the opposite is the case for online dating singles – singles who meet online like one another more!
McKenna and Fitzgerald both offered results showing that people who have reached the level of meeting and knowing each other well via an online concept, are not “blinded” by an initial attraction factor and as a result had more things in common. For more information logon to www.thegoogleincome.com .
Online dating singles are usually ready for a long lasting relationship. Not wanting or not able to meet new singles in a night club environment they decide to take the search seriously.This may be because online dating permits the single to be discriminative and to finish relationships with unsuitable dates early on.
The success of a romance through online dating or meeting in person has been proven to be reliant on four main points:Where the online dating couples meet – distant romances are less likely to succeed. Various job types and different financial matters also bode badly.
What the online dating couples do together – similar interests can bring people together and therefore the romance is more likely to last.The amount of conversation singles have with each other when they are in a romantic partnership: taking a long period to get to know one another online before meeting in person and postponing sexual relations promotes longevity of relationships.
How communication is effected: Couples who learn to deal well with communication even when in dispute are likely to last longer. Online chat provides a medium that allows couples to become comfortable when communicating, even if disputes occur later when having already met face to face.
To know more logon to www.adsense-income-exposed.com .Tidwell and Wallis 2003 and Johnson 2002 produced statistical results showing that singles who meet online are more likely to offer personal details and emotions than those who met in person. This possibly goes along way to explaining the longer relationships outcome, but it is likely that factors like anonomynity would certainly play a part in online dating.
Online dating singles are usually ready for a long lasting relationship. Not wanting or not able to meet new singles in a night club environment they decide to take the search seriously. The available access of online dating services mean that online dating can be slotted in between TV shows, other activities with friends or when relaxing after work. This non rushed, relaxed setting puts the online dater in a calm frame of mind, and this relaxing state of mind in turn makes them more attractive.
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Help my men dilemma please! (LONG)?
I’m SO sorry to post on here but I’m feeling quite confused right now and for reasons I can’t go into I can’t really tell my friends about this.
I’m a single mum and have 2 boys and I left my ex nearly 2 years ago.
So far this year I saw one man who was obsessed but then turned nasty and was a voilent drunk. So I left him. No regrets = goodby psycho!
Then I met toyboy walking down the street. He was gorgeous and I saw him for a few m onths, in these months I’ve never been spoilt so much I had wine flowers chocolates got took out, swept off my feet, but had to end it as he was 10 years younger and wanted loads of kids. To which I have to say I still regret this decision as I adored him to the bone and he was such a lovely guy. I miss him. I tried to get back with him as he did me but it was too late by this stage. (he had split 5 weeks before from his nasty ex, so I said he needed space which I think he did)
I’m now seeing someone who I got set up with from a blind date. We hit it off from the start, but he’s not my "usual" type (muscly good looking lol) but I don’t mind that.
Now he is a nice guy, I’m not sure if I am that into him, I’m quite loud and wacky and love a laugh. On the down side he doesn’t offer (ever to pay for me) to take me out not that I’m bothered cos like Beyonce I’m an independent woman (he is wealthy apparently) he stops over here a few times a week,
I get a babysitter we go out and as couples as part of the group..We get on very well and have never had a crossed word and although I think he likes me, as I do him, he never compliments me (ever).or says I look nice. Which isn’t that part of being someone? I compliment him?
he hasn’t got kids and I think mine scare me off.
He was supposed to come round last night but I changed my mind as the kids had been up since 5am and I was knackered. Plus this confusion going round.
He is lovely, yet so quiet, in fact I’m thinking maybe TOO quiet??? Now I don’t know if I am pushing someone nice away because I feel like this. I can’t discuss feelings or where this is going because he’s so laidback he’d drop off a cliff given half the chance. Plus I am scared!
I even gave up my memberships to online dating sites I’d gone onto as I’d met him now I’m thinking why do I bother?
Hope I don’t sound like a moaning cow, or in fact a slapper. All I’d like is a man who adores me and vice versa and gives me some romance. And also adores my kids. Is this TOO MUCH to ask? Do all men use single mums as booty calls? I am so not going to be anyone’s booty call, and I don’t think I am to this guy but I am not a mind reader so don’t know what to think.
For now, I’m busy pushing myself in my career, have lots of plans and am very busy. So I think throwing myself into my work is the best thing to do.
Thanks for listening and any advice is appreciated.
Interesting reading your story. Your thoughts are typical. He is a nice guy and you are playing him.
You either want a nice guy or you don’t. Nice guys are quiet and need time to open up. As for him paying for things, I will say this for him. He is doing the right thing. In my experience, and I just went through this a few weeks ago, the more a nice guy spends on a woman the more that guy will be rejected by her.
You either want a loving relationship free of drama or you don’t. Nice guys are quiet, yet loving. They don’t play games but they do take time to open up. When they do are are nice to a fault.
Im learning this after 38 years.
I am a nice guy and I kept in touch with my ex gf for years and was ALWAYS there when needed for her kids. She too was a single mom and I felt a responsibility for those kids. My ex and I never had a sexual relationship again after we broke up. For me the kid, even though they were not mine were important to me.
If this guy is truly a nice guy…which I think he is….The in my experience you will end up rejecting him. The reason is simple. In my 38 years of observation and personal experience a nice guy will never be given a real chance with a woman. The saying "nice guys finish last" is true.
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