Tips on Dating for Geeks
Dating for geeks is in many ways non existent. This is not because they are not a lovable people but, it is because, many geeks do not know how to go about dating. Geeks are the smartest people around but, when it comes to the matters of the heart, they need to learn one or two things. If you are a geek or a nerd, you need to empower yourself with relevant information in regard to dating. The following are some pointers that you will find pretty exciting. When you are a nerd, you might find yourself apologizing to people for who you are. You need to be proud of who you are and not look to give any explanations to people. Dating for geeks needs to be fun and for this to happen, you must build up all the confidence in you. As a very smart person, you need to know that there are people who would give anything to have an understanding on issues just like you. Therefore, take advantage of your knowledge and make the most out of your dating experiences.
Dating for geeks should be with people you actually like. Many nerds often admire or love people who are just like them. In other occasions, geeks will love girls or guys who are not geeks at all. In other words, let your feelings guide you; you have every right to fall in love with the girl of your choice. After working on your confidence, you need to have an open mind. For example, who said that geeks must wear those funny clothes? Look around and see what is in fashion and what might be most suitable for you. Learn to relax and above all, be yourself. This is to say that you do not have to change the way you talk for the purpose of being cool. You should know better than anybody, that girls really love people who are themselves. Dating for geeks should be personalized. Go an extra mile to please the girl you ask out. Geeks are known to be pretty impulsive and exciting; you are surely going to make a girl or guy happy.
Dating for geeks should take place in normal places. This is because geeks tend to think too much. When you ask a girl out, they expect to feel like part of humanity; not like some robot. Therefore as a geek make the experience a pleasurable one as you treat the person you ask out in a normal way. In high schools, kids like to go out for dates in malls and other happy joints. For this reason, as a geek, you must be open to this and see how the date will work out. Dating for nerds does not have to be perfect; dates are not meant to be perfect. If all goes wrong on one date, you have many others to attend. Learn from previous dates and you will eventually meet someone who will not just compliment you perfectly but, they will be in love with you. Have fun at every step of the way.
Francis Githinji
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Dating tips for geeks?
I’m the geek at school and I’m shy. I am wondering ways to ask someone out without becoming scared of a girl, and messing up every thing I say.
If you believe in yourself and tell yourself that you are not shy, it shows. Im shy but I just pretend im not and I dont have a problem.
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common misconception about women is that they are only interested in “jerks”. Log onto any forum, and you will most likely see depressive posts written by computer geeks that whine about how “nice guys always finish last” and “girls only go for assholes”.
Don’t buy into this propaganda. These theories are just excuses for the poor love lives of frustrated, asexual guys that have been conditioned by their mothers and sisters to be “nice” to women. Their complaints are out of pure jealousy.
Listen: women don’t like “jerks”. They just like masculine men. The only advantage “jerks” have over “nice guys” is that “jerks” usually carry more traditional masculine traits. In short…
Acting Like A Jerk Won’t Help You Get Women.
FACT: If you want to be popular with women, don’t try to be a jerk. Rather, become a real, masculine man.
Why? Because women naturally respond to masculinity – just like we men naturally respond to femininity. Think about it, as a guy, would you like a masculine, lesbian dyke?
I’m going to teach you exactly what you need to do release the natural male charm within you so that you can become the masculine male every woman wants.
If you can follow some simple step-by-step instructions and work on developing the character, voice tone, and body language that masculine men have, then it’s almost impossible for you to not increase your success rate with women…
… DRAMATICALLY!
Dating Myth #2:
"Women Aren’t As Sexual As Men…"
A lot of guys have been poisoned by the media and by their own mothers to believe in the “nice guy culture”. Everybody on T.V says women want to find a “good man” they can love. "Relationship experts" and old-fashioned mommies tell guys they are supposed to control their sexual urges and pretend they want everything from women except sex.
But you know what? A few decades of talk shows and misinformation aren’t going to change 3.2 billion years of evolution. What women want today hasn’t changed much from what women wanted millions of years ago.
Don’t buy into the garbage that women don’t like sex. Talk to any attractive women, and you will see that the best-looking women always have REGULAR sex. In short…
Acting Like A Gay Or Asexual Man Won’t Help You Get Women!
FACT: Our sexual urges have been repressed by our social conditioning. To attract women, you must learn to "slip past" her social conditioning and get in touch with her sexual state.
To get in touch with her sexual state, you must use the three-step approach of dating: Emotions, Desire, and Action.
I will show you how to calibrate a woman’s emotions and make her feel comfortable and safe around you. Then you can arouse her curiosity and match her feelings with yours to create a bond. Next, you turn her feelings into desire and anchor onto her desire in order to amplify it. Finally, you take physical action and advance things to the next level.
(Note: You can repeat these steps over-and-over with every woman you meet.)
Dating Myth #3:
"You Should Just ‘Be Yourself’…"
We hear from women all the time that we should just “be ourselves” when we’re around the ladies, but what does “being yourself” mean?
For Mr. Average Joe, it means stuttering and sweating his palms and "freezing up" because he’s very nervous. (Not very attractive!)
So tell me, would you like to “be yourself” around women? Would you rather stutter and freeze in front of a beautiful woman, or would you rather be a confidant, masculine man who wins all the women’s hearts?
Just "Being Yourself" Won’t Help You Get Women!
Besides, most guys are NOT "being themselves" when they try to get women using "conventional" ways.
Think about what the “Average Joe” does when he meets Miss Right:
1) He tries to win her heart by sending her flowers and buying her gifts.
2) He tries to impress her by boasting about his own success and achievements.
3) He tries to please her by doing everything she wants.
Now…is Average Joe just "being himself" when he spends $50 or $100 on a woman in one evening? Or is he trying to be bribe the woman into falling in love with him? (Which never works, by the way…)
Here is the bottom line: There are many different ways of doing things – but some ways work better than others.
What you should do is learn the RIGHT way to approach women and dating. Instead of using the tactics that Mr. Average Joe uses to please a woman (which never work so well), learn to use the tactics that the "Lady Killer" uses to attract women.
FACT: Dating is a skill you can learn. You can “be yourself” and still attract women…if you follow some simple rules and tactics of dating.
There are many good "tactics" th
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When you see a girl you like whip out your schlong and ask her what she thinks about it.
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just tell him hai
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You’re going to mess up what you say… because we all do when we like someone. Don’t beat yourself up over it, she’ll probably think it’s cute and a sign of how much you like her.
If you haven’t decided on who to ask out yet, I’d recommend another geek. Geeky girls are amazing… and you’re a geek yourself, so don’t waste your time going after a shallow girl to impress your friends… go for something special that will make you happy… someone you can really fall in love with.
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Best of luck!
build up some confidence my friend..your a geek..research that shit..once you get confidence it wont matter..but you must be up to get rejected, and when it happens still stay positive…be yourself too..some girls like geeks..so dont short hand yourself
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girls get quite nervous when talking to boys too . so ur not alone .
Just be yourself , as cliched as that sounds its the only way .
U have to love yourself first if you ever want anyone to love u
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Be self-confident.. That’s probably something you would expect to hear off a TV show or something but try it.
Try releasing your quirkiness into jokes.
When you look into her eyes (and yes look at her eyes and not her chest).. check to see if she looks confused, or just straight up bored.
Anyways.. If she isn’t sure of what you’re saying, move on and talk about something else.
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just tell the girl you like that you are going to the movies, and she is going with you. This will be really awkward and demanding sounding, but at the movies it will get less awkward.
be like…
Hey, I just wanted to say…. I bought two movie tickets and you’re going with me to this show. See you after school.
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hmmmmm dont bother at school , waist of time just be chiks friend and dont like any of them like that it will scare them away …its nice to have geek guys as mates coz they can help u out with computer shit and homework unless they are geeky and may be in the same situation as u ….if ur cute then neva no if not then let it go
try meeting someone on an internet dating site ,
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